Which sort of suggests that a convincing answer to a question of "why do you play online games?" could pretty fairly be "do you have anything better to do?".Every one seems to have the problem that Everquest prevents people from having a Normal life. My question to you becomes define normal? Is normal a life simmilar to a given percentage of the population in a selected area? Is it having 1.3 children and an SUV. Before you go claiming that something is ruining someone's life how do you know what is ruin and what is solid in another's life.
I have played Everquest for 3 years, my wife playes everquest with me now, and for us it is our major social activity. I do no miss going to the bar infact I never enjoyed doing so, and am happy to not do that. We still unplug and have social time, but we are probably on most nights, to talk to our friends, to play, to enjoy the game.